The #1 reason people fail to achieve success and abundance in MLM
or in life is they have too much pain linked to having, it. Obscured
somewhere deep in the mind, possibly even hidden deep in the
sub-conscious, there is this powerful negative association that lingers.
These negative associations manifest themselves in various conscious
and subconscious ways, that include: self-sabotage, approach avoidance,
fear, anxiety, or general disinterest towards wealth, success, and
achievement. Often people are not even aware they are suffering with
such an affliction. They never seem to get clear with their heart about
what they really, really want, and they never begin to germinate their
intentions. If you don't address these issues they will dog you every
step of the way throughout your life as you wonder why you feel less
than abundant, less than happy, less than fulfilled. This "comfort zone"
is designed as a survival mechanism but it maybe setting your success
level thermostatically far below what you really want in life. If you
knew how restrictive your comfort zone can be you probably wouldn't
refer to it as comfortable at all. I know it is ironic but it is the way
your brain functions.
The only way to effectively overcome this
obstacle if you suffer from it is to reset your inner success thermostat
for success and abundance. A good MLM company, system, or sponsor will
be of supreme benefit here. You have to eliminate the obstacles to your
success in this industry. Get to work enlisting a competent trainer and
get yourself to the mental gym.. The only thing you have to lose is your
chance of success.
The #2 reason people fail wildly successful in
life and in our industry is they refuse to make their reasons why a
burning desire! The Compelling Reason Why isn't there. A compelling
reason why is both the heart and the heartbeat that sends blood and
oxygen rushing to every essential success muscle in your body. It's the
fire that burns within. Without blood and oxygen your success will
atrophy and die! Without this fire to heat you you'll freeze to death on
the icy plains and never reach the Promised Land. You must find your
compelling reason why and become willing to pursue it with unbending
intent. This is why doing a compelling reason why exercise is so vitally
important.
The #3 reason people fail to reach success in MLM and
in life is they have no definite plan or there is no proven strategy
being employed to take you there. Elements of the success equation are
missing entirely or at least in part in their plans. Not having a
formula, system, or effective plan to follow is the equivalent to going
nowhere fast! If you are happy going nowhere, that's fine. But if you
are simply unwilling to invest in yourself, and your business, and go to
the necessary lengths, don't kid yourself. Your success is simply not
important enough for you to make any significant lasting headway. Until
your success and abundance becomes important enough, you will continue
down the same road, achieving the same similar results as you are
accustomed to.
The #4 reason people fail at success and abundance
in life and in MLM is that they don't follow through by taking the right
kind of consistent daily actions. Momentum never gets established.
Daily focused right action is required. Even baby steps in the right
direction established as a daily habit accomplish a great deal more over
time than short bursts of achievement. Short unsustained bursts are a
"rabbit-habit" not a success habit. The effect of baby steps sustained
over time far outweigh the effects of more infrequent bursts of intense
accomplishment. Consistent small baby steps are building the habits
necessary overall to succeed. The tortoise beats the hare when it comes
to success.
The #5 reason why people fail to achieve great wealth
and success is that they let setbacks along the way derail the process.
They are the MLM whiners who after 90 days in the business are ready to
quit due to some adversity on the roadway toward success. They turn
setbacks into crisis and then allow these to become their downfall.
Business, financial, or life setbacks and crises must be turned into
opportunities for growth and valor. They must be weathered. You can do
this, but it requires faith and a positive mental attitude. It requires
training. You must absorb the lesson that life is presenting to you, and
you will grow. You must realize you are on the right path. You must
learn to treat all failures as educational opportunities, and learn to
discern the messages and meanings in them. Turning your back or quitting
won't help. It simply won't fix it.
Try not to take it all too
personally. Accept the fact that these learning opportunities will come,
and develop the attitude necessary to prosper when they do. Success is
built upon a thousand foolish blunders; failures turned into experience,
fortitude, and know-how. The most successful people have also made the
most mistakes - so why should you be thinking you're different- like
you're born into special circumstances or something? I'm not trying to
scare you... I'm just trying to inoculate you a little so when the
inevitable setbacks come you're not alarmed or taken out of the game
entirely. You see the key is to grow in wisdom, independence, and
experience. Realize that when setbacks and disappointment comes it is
another benchmark, a milestone along the road to success. Learn not to
be afraid to stumble, blunder and do it again if necessary to gain
another priceless piece of the puzzle. Realize now that mistakes,
hardships, and failures are a part of the process - not the end. Don't
quit and don't whine about things, instead gain the mindset and
fortitude of a true entrepreneur. Get right down to where the rubber
meets the road and accept this philosophy as it pertains to your own
journey toward successful entrepreneurship, wealth and abundance.